Day Watch

While going out and meeting women on an evening is common, it is not the only place you can meet them. Generally, night time is preferred mainly because they're all out to have a good time and there are so many of them. However, there are some absolute stunners who only seem to venture out during the day. You can find them every where, walking down the street, book shops, coffee shops, clothes shops. The advantage is during the day they're not with their cockblocking girlfriends and their defences are down, also guys rarely cold approach during the day so you show brass balls by being different. It seems most guys have a preference, they prefer doing day game or night game. Day game seems to be an art in itself, most guys have solid night game but I've met very few who really have day game nailed.

One of them who has a good grasp of it is my friend Royal, I went out with him the other day and we ended up talking to these two girls in the Victoria Qtr. Afterwards, we started discussing day game. He told me something very important which hit the nail on the head for me. You see Royal has this awesome ability to come up with humorous one liners off the top of his head, he ploughs during the day and generally seems to do everything but close, although he's even starting to do that now. We've all quizzed him and he usually gives us random advice. But the other day was the first time I really went 'ah ha'.

You see it everyone always distinguishes the two, Royal believes there is no day and night, but just 'game'. Sounds simple huh? I commented about how it's different during the day, but he pointed out that 'game' is the same it is the person that is different. During the day you have your work head on or you're going shopping, you're focusing on other things where as you should do exactly the same as you do on a night out.

So on Sunday I did just that and noticed my opening rate sky rocket, it was that simple. Ok, during the day people will not tolerate your high energy antics as much, but you soon calibrate and learn what you can and cannot get away with. Personally, I'd rather open more and be over the top and then calibrate it down than think I have to game a different way, struggle and not open at all.

I always try and open on my lunch breaks while I'm at work, I'm going to take this mindset and run with it and see how it develops.