Shattering the 'Friend Zone'

Ok, I completely just side stepped the big mofo of a barrier called 'The Friend Zone' like it was nothing. However, I learnt a couple of things in the process, had a realisation and experienced first hand some theory I had read about.

Background

I know this girl from an old job, she was kind of quiet at work and never really spoke unless I talked about going out and partying. After a few work night outs, me, her and another girl became good friends. We both ended up leaving the job around the same time, but we stayed in touch meeting every so often for drinks/lunch, bumping into each other on a night out or just talking on MSN.

She knows I go out and meet women regularly, in fact we often discuss social dynamics and male/female relationships. She tells me about the guys she fucks and I tell her about the stuff I get up to when I go out sarging. She does not know about 'game' per say, but knows I go out to meet women. We also talk about sex a lot, whether it be her telling me about her experiences or me telling her about mine. It has on occasion, if she has gone a while without sex, kind of turned sexual while we have chatted on MSN. But it has never been like 'yeah lets fuck' but more subtle hints, but she has always snapped back with a rational declaration of our relationship; friends.

"Anyway we're friends, I'd never cross that line" and things of that nature. This was always fine by me, I value her friendship, she has a nice body but her face is so so and I would say I was never particula rly attracted to her. This was never a me 'trying to get her' sort of flex as it's cool to have women friends and I was more than happy with going out and meeting new girls on a night out. So our relationship was purely platonic by choice.

Now I never thought the friend zone could be broken until I read something by Jonny Soporno. Now I'm not the sort of person to promote 'gurus' and methods, but he explains that the only reason a girl won't have sex with her guy friends is out of fear that they would become chodey, get attached, want something more and essentially ruin the friendship between them. This kind of made sense but I never really thought I'd ever try it out. Until now...

The girl, lets call her HBphoto for reasons you will see later, and I were chatting on MSN earlier in the week and she mentioned how she had seen this guy but he was a bit of a chode and the sex between them was not happening because he was having a few difficulties. This was frustrating her as she just wanted some sex as it had been a while and each morning she woke up feeling horny as hell.

So, the conversation was already sexual, she mentioned she was meeting another guy on Wednesday night for a date then the chode on valentines day, though she was unsure about both. We started talking about oral sex, I don't know how that happened and she was on about how she does not enjoy it and not many guys can make her cum. I started telling her about my experiences of receiving BJs from girls and how some were good and some were plain shit. She rose to the challenge and said she was good and could make every guy cum from oral. I ended up throwing down a challenge half jokingly; she tries to make me cum and I try to make her cum via oral only; the date, Friday noon.

She was like ok hahaha I'll win, reh reh reh, I told her to brush up her skills on the guys before and if she didn't get sex from either of them she sucked. "Even I'm not that bad" I said.

She was like omg, I'm meeting three guys in a row, 'x' on weds, 'x' on Thurs and you on 'fri'. Now, until this point I had been half joking, I've said shit like this before but never followed it through. Anyway, it came to Thursday and I asked how she got on with her date to the dude from weds she said he was a bit weird, but kind of hot. Nothing happened between them though. I wished her good luck for Valentines Day with the chode and said I'd see her on Friday.

Went out on Valentines Day and had an awesome night, Today rolled along and I went to meet her in town then went back to hers. Everything was normal but I was kind of still 'on it' from the night before. I made sure I was kinoing more than usual but not in a 'creepy' or 'weird' way but just enough to make sure if I escalated it would not be out of the blue.

She had prev iously mentioned how she had just bought some new lingerie, red and black and how she was taking photos for her oneitis. She also was filling me in on her date and how it didn't happen in the bedroom, he was a chode and she kind of told him it wasn't working between them, earlier today.

She showed me the picture she had taken in her new lingerie on her laptop, it looked pretty decent, but I suggested a few alterations, she also pointed out it was hard because the self timer was only 10 seconds long. I had a flash idea, I told her to go upstairs put on her lingerie and I'd come take some pictures for her. She was like... hahahaha... I plowed, she then agreed after finishing her tea.

She got ready and I went upstairs, her body was kind of nice, better than I had expected, her face is still 'eeeeh' so I was busting out my Rankin photo shots trying to give her direction.

"pretend brad pitt is behind me and you're trying to look sexy for him"

"work it baby"

I told her to take off her bra, promising I'd look away if she was too shy. She whipped it off and I draped a metallic sheer scarf around her neck and over her breasts. I could feel the tension, but didn't really go for the kiss as it still seemed a bit weird being a friend. With a random it doesn't matter if you piss her off she can keep on walking. If you do it with your friend you can make things awkward and weird between you.

For the finale I put the camera on self timer and stepped behind her holding onto her breasts. Titties from heaven, yeaaaah buddy!

Anyway, she started to get dressed and I start bringing up the challenge and how she couldn't make me cum etc. She was like

"What you really want to do it?"
"N o, we're friends, I that'd be crossing the line"
"Besides I need a drink to do it"

We go downstairs and look at the photos on her laptop, I'm thinking fuck I've blown it. But then It came into my head, I was just grabbing this girls titties, friends or not she did not object. I felt my spider senses tingling when I was putting the scarf on her, that's over a years worth of intuition telling me something. I then had the story from the Jeffy show in my head, where he jumps into bed with that girl like 'irrelevant, lets go, irrelevant, lets go, come on'.

She sent the pictures to my email account, I said I'd go get her a drink and asked her what she wanted;

HBPhoto: "A tea"

OD B: "Vodka then yeah?"

I got her a vodka and lemonade and gave it to her, it still wasn't happening, she had something to eat and was taking pussy sips from the small glass I gave her. I wasn't trying to get her drunk, just loosen her up a little. She had drank a quarter of the glass when I was like fuck it... stood up and was like

"come on lets go"

I grabbed her by the hand and lead her upstairs. As we were going upstairs I said to her that today does not count, this is just a one off. This is something again I got from Jonny Soporno, he always says that he is the guy that does not count if he beds a girl who is in a relationship. You know when girls are all together and they're talking about sexual partners... oh ODB... no he didn't count.

we sat on the bed and started making out. She then went down on me and vice versa, I ended up busting my nut. This had got her going, I had no intention of fucking her when I got there, I was happy to see the challenge through, but I had already got her going, so we carried on going at it until I started to fuck her. She was kind of noisy which honestly made me laugh so I stuffed my face in the pillow to muffle the sound. She couldn't kiss too good either and was also a bit tight. I wanted to slam the shit out of her porno style as the yelps and moans made me laugh, but she said it hurt. For the record I'm mr average, I ain't no Mr Porno dick either.

Afterwards, I stole a condom off her to replace the one I had in my pocket (I'm cheap). I noticed that there wasn't really a spark between us, at least I did not feel one. I was not super attracted to her, that was probably the reason. This was more about validation and a notch on the bed post than anything else. However, I learnt a lot, I learnt the art of plowing in a sexual situation first hand. Experience is always the best teacher, we all know times when we should plow but until you do it you never learn from it. I was all good with plowing when meeting a girl, but when it came to sex that was new for me. This was about being dominant and leading. I could have bitched out when I thought it would go no where, but instead I decided to plow like a mofo.

I also had a kind of realisation or a brain storm at least. While I was walking back for my bus, I realised I did not feel super buzzing like I have in the past after I had just got laid.. I mean I had to work just as hard for this shit, but I think it was because the sex was not really a 'big deal'. Ok, she wasn't super hot, but in the past I'd scored with none super hot girls and still felt buzzing from it. I thought to myself, this is what it should be like all the time. I felt calm, still, tranquil...

See to a guy who gets laid all the time, this is normal. Also imagine you score with some super model chick, If you're way too excited about the prospect, after the occasion, and leading up to it, chances are you're going to want it too bad, become needy, or get too excited/nervous and get a limp dick/bust too soon.

This shit came to me and I remember seeing some analogy on RSD about climbing the mountain until you get to the super hotties at the top. Some guys run into this game thinking they're going to get super hotties but they're really not internally built for that yet. I know, I've suffered from some of those things I mentioned in the past because of that.

Then I think about my natural friend, this guy scores hot girls all the time, he is so fucking blase about it all. Would he get all excited? No I don't think so...

Picture the scene, we're in a bar, this hot hot girl he knew from school wants to fuck him. Dude is like 'hmmm' I don't know. Me and my wing are jumping up and down like yooo! go fuck her man! what are you doing!.

We were more excited about the prospect than him. That is why he was in that situation and we weren't. He comes back from fucking her and is still just chilled, instead of filling us in about how and what he did with her, he moans at us because he had to walk so far to the takeaway. He points out that sometimes we 'try' too hard, where as he just sits back and waits. It's a kind of useless bit of information to a guy who is learning this shit but it makes sense at the same time.

Using no way as way. Using no limitation as limitation