The Takeaway and update

So this is not really a post fully about takeaways but mainly a continuation of the last post. In the previous post I mentioned taking opportunities, recently I have noticed that on occasion I'll have a set where attraction is spiked and it goes well, but the interaction is brief. They are with their friend who is dragging them away, they were on their way somewhere but they verbalise to meet up or see you later on. Now I feel this is just 'leaving the set on a high note' manifesting its self in another form. I should be taking action and either making sure the friend does not walk off or making sure I close or continue the interaction. 

What usually happens is they walk off and even though they may have completely wanted to hook up with you, in a busy club you won't see them again. That is why the only time to act is the present. It could work possibly if you were in a bar and wanted to bounce the girl to a club but you'd have to number close them. In my local town where there is only one club that everybody goes to, that method would probably work, otherwise be in the moment and act accordingly.

I've been reading the power of now recently and it is a good book there some nuggets of information. It is not a magic pill but just helps you understand how things work and more than anything be aware of the concept of being in the 'now'. I do not follow the hype it has generated in the community, it is a good book, it is not the holy grail. One concept which ties into this post is how the ego uses the concept of time, always manifesting itself in the past and the future. In this situation, one would leave the interaction on the high because of the chance that in the future you'll see the girl and carry on from where you left off. In reality the only time that matters is the now hen you have the opportunity to do what you need to do with the girl.

I recently contacted a girl i closed from the last report, it seems she was in a complicated relationship and now its settled. I thought i would be honest and tell hr I thought she was sexy as hell, she was, and if her relationship status changes to get at me. She still wants to see the pictures o us kissing though, random. It is a shame though as she was one of the more interesting girl i've met recently, however they'll be plenty more...