This is a round up for the week like I promised, there was no real ah ha! moments that I experienced first hand while being out this week. I do want to point out that I finished listening to the blueprint and damn! that is some dope shit. Truly messed with my head and completely made me see the social world in another light. It was at a nice point too where I have set myself a goal to achieve for the end of summer, to have that 'kick it off' so to speak was good as it gave me the necessary drive and information to take it to the next level.
So I went out on Thursday night and really had an awesome night, I was dancing all night long. In terms of talking to women I didn't talk to as many as usual but I did end up closing a girl on the way out. This is a reminder that as long as you're enjoying yourself you know your bringing the party you don't have to be talking to girls every split second of the night. You have the skills to see it through. Like before you have to play it carefully and not use having fun as an excuse not to push it, but it illustrates you don't have to be 'value scanning' the room for the next 'set'.
- Closer mentality
I could have done better here, however I did close a girl on the way out and ended up getting a make out with her. There was just me and her at the end of the night outside. All the guys had disappeared, I had tried getting the girl to come to Kadas with us, a place we go to eat. Now she wouldn't come, I plowed and got a make out with her, so I tried again, no go. She said that she had to go inside to meet her friends. But she stayed, now I was like cool and went to find my friends...
- Pushing the comfort zone
Ok.. so really there were a few points in the night I did push it 'slightly' and a few where I did not at all. Notice I left the above paragraph unfinished. Well, the girl stayed, truly pushing my comfort zone and having that closer mentality... I should have taken her somewhere and gone for a full close. I mean, the girl stood there, yes she said she had to go find her friends but she stood there. Afterwards I thought to myself, why did I not try and move her? "Come follow me..." or "Hey, lets go on an adventure.." This is probably my weakest area most definitely, I'm still not feeling the burn enough.
- Flow
Again, an area that I have probably neglected the most. At the start of the night I was on it and talking to people but then I died down a little more. On Saturday night it was none existent and this is the main reason why the night sucked in terms of meeting people. Enter then venue 'BAM!' Bringing the party, talking to people. I mean having fun is priority and if you're not in state or cannot draw it from within then yeah but you still need that momentum to start being social and talking to people.
- Plowing
I've got better at this marginally, I had to plow to get my make out so that is a bonus and I know I have started ploughing a little more. I remember though on Thursday night some hottie giving me shit, I just joked around and stood in my Bboy stance and she started laughing... I left it at that. PLOW!! PLOW!! MOFO! Seems straight forward now, but at the time for whatever reason I did not do it. There were other instances I know for sure when I should have plowed.
- Creativity
I'm ok in this area, not super good but Ok. I demonstrated to myself and my friends you can truly open with ANYTHING.
The Hustle: "Titties...over there"
ODB: Shouting.... "TIIITTTTIIEEESSS!! *Points at the girl with a :-O expression*
She hears, looks and double takes... I smile and wave then high five her.. all gravy....
Saturday I lacked every point I mentioned and was just doing enough to get by. But it highlighted I still have a long way to go.
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