Tough Love

You know sometimes you have 'one of those nights', where it is just not happening. I try not to judge nights any more, good or bad, as long as I am out, it is progression. Last night was one of those nights, I approached and kept hammering away at the shit but my state was up and down. The thing is the opportunities were there, plenty of hotties plenty of sets, one girl grabbed my balls for good sack. I just didn't see them through or was too apathetic and lazy. The thing is its all part of forming an habit going out and doing this shit. On nights like these it is like a slap in the face, a wake up call, especially if you have been getting complacent. You end up learning more about your game than the nights when everything goes in your favour.

Which kind of leads me on to my other point, even the other night when I had a 'good night' so to speak, hotties, makeouts etc I wasn't as 'excited' as I have been in the past perhaps it is was the same thing at play that I wrote about in my LR....?












Ok, I was just having a discussion with my wing about last nights activities. I came up with two main sticking points of mine and his. However, these sticking points are things that two other guys we know do not lack. They lack the opposite that we have, coolness, social, normalness, the ability to make a girl feel at ease and not get weired or creeped out.

It is almost like the Yin and the Yang. We lack what they have and they lack what we have, together we form like Voltron, or maybe not.

Our major sticking points are basic, the ability to open anything at any time, these guys really have balls of steel and never flinch.

The other one is the art of plowing, I am much better at it than I used to be but I still kind of eject a little early at times. I think the weirdness has probably helped them develop their plowing techniques as the girls are wanting to get rid of them straight away so they have no choice but to plow. Where as for us some girls open up right away and are completely receptive, so if we meet someone with a bit of resistance we are like ah fuck it, open another set because they might be more receptive.

The first sticking point probably would be remedied by the concept of 'flow'. Fuck knows where it comes from, but I got it off my good boy Flows. It is kind of like warm up sets, but instead of picking off the sets, bam, bam, bam, 1, 2, 3... you just flow from the first group of people you see to the next until you get to where ever you want to go. Regardless of how hard they are or how large or how small. Regardless of how hot or how ugly they are; just flow through them.

I think this concept is golden, it does two things; number one, gets you warmed up and into state. Number two, it gets you used to opening everything and everyone.

These things are what I am going to work on this Tuesday. I will re read this blog and then come back to it to see how I get on. The making out and isolation is covered, time to get back to basics and nail the fundamentals.