Newcastle: The Rebirth

This weekend gone saw me and the boys hit up Newcastle. We stayed for two nights and had plenty of fun. Newcastle is an awesome city for partying in and is full of turbo hotties so fun times ensued. The main thing I got from the Newcastle trip though was the realisation that I really need to switch it up to the next gear. The highlight for me was almost getting a girl back to the hotel. It started by me jumping in front of two girls sat down and seeing how their night was going.

I did it to kill some time while Bil was talking to two other girls at the bar. I instantly tried making out with one of them but she wasn't feeling it. Then turned my attention to the other and was just vibing with her. She asked where I was staying, I told her a travelodge, turns out they were staying in one but in a different part of Newcastle.

At the reception desk they had given us these little cut out pieces of paper with the address on, so I pulled one out of my back pocket and put it down her bra, making sure I copped a feel of her nipples. I cheekily told her that was for later, she replied saying she didn't know what room I would be staying in. So I took out the piece of paper and asked for a pen. She said she didn't have one but asked for my number. So we exchanged numbers, made out before we went. Five minutes after we left I txt her

"I rock, woo"

to which she replied

"I rock more"

Sorted.

I went on and did my thing for the rest of the night, until we were just about to leave I got a txt from her

"What you up to?x"

Turns out she was back at her travelodge, so I told her we were going back to ours and she should come over. Murphy pointed out I should get her postcode and just turn up, that way she could not deny me sex. Murphy was right, but I carried on trying to get her to come to ours, she was making lame excuses, then I suggested we came over but it was too late.

Now it is those little things that make the difference, pushing it at the right points. I came close but did not push it properly at the right time.

We also met 10pin who was a cool dude, he has been on fire this past week posting four LRs in total. The thing I love about them is that they are all textbook and you can clearly see the points that made the difference. He is also just a cool regular dude it's good to see someone like that getting results from this shit. I sat down and read one of his LRs and thought to myself where would I have given in? Where would I have called it a night and accepted the validation the girls had given to me?

So I'm going to paraphrase his LR and break down the points where I would have probably thrown in the towel. This is purely for reference for me.

Last night I got blow out, stalked by a girl, blow out, blow out, blow out, threatened with violence, then a 2 set down to fuck almost immediately. And the 2 set was probably the hottest in the club.

I don't get rejected enough, which means when I do it ruins my state. Pure and simple I need to get rejected more, which means start opening hotter women.

Forearm grab this cutie walking past. 'Oi. What's your name?' she's startled so I just repeat it. FULL BREAKING RAPPORT. Opens right up. I have nothing but intent so just go for the makeout. She dodges with 'boyfriend' excuses, to which I tell her I have one too. She looks at me, tries to make sense of this, fails, and instead we go and sit in the VIP bit.

Here I would have bottled it and let her probably go on her way. But he leads her, something I don't do enough. Lead, move around the venue with the girl.

Now, on the dancefloor I almost lost it. She kept coming in close, and then waltzing away. I could hardly even get her in for a grind. But instead of panicking, I just shrugged and laughed.

We grind for a few seconds here and there, but nothing much. The song she likes is ending, and she is about to leave. TIME TO GO FULL CAVEMAN DELUXE...

I grab her as she is waltzing off:

'Come the fuck here.'

Makeout.

Doesn't need much explainantion.

I lead her to the cloakroom, get my jacket. Her jaw drops. She's about to start protesting and saying 'no'...I know what I need.

Rapid state break.

So I just instantly caveman her over to the booth, using my isolation line, 'Lets find a happy place. Lets go to the happy place' (wtf....it works). Take her into the booth. Slam up against the wall. Put her hand on my cock, start fingering her.

She says:

'Oh for fucks sake, lets go'.

Glory times...

Again, here the difference is he lead, and escalated making sure his sexual intent shone through.

Which kind of highlights to me, that I'm not getting rejected enough, I'm definitely not leading enough and I'm not getting sexual. A lot of the time I'm trying to get these meaningless make outs that don't really mean shit. They just give the girl her little bit of validation so she can carry on with the rest of the night.

On the plus side I have been getting more numbers and make outs, this is because I switched up and aimed to try and close every set. I'm less concerned with the make outs, I know I can do that. They don't really serve a purpose to try and get one in every set unless you're uncomfortable going for them. However, I have been going for numbers more which is what I'm happy about.

Seems counter productive?

Well, for a long time I got hooked on going for make outs thinking that naturally they would lead to ONS. Numbers were for setting up day2's. However, Newcastle and Tim's blog and Alexander's helped put a new spin on things.

Tim talks about the rhythm 10-2, he says that between 10-12 a girl is not really going to go home with you because she has just come out, or just got into the club. So at this point I'm going to close everything, get them numbers. Setting up potential meets later in the night, if it doesn't happen from the numbers you have them stored so you can follow them up a couple of days later. If for whatever reason you don't bump into each other again, she has your number and it may follow through into a potential day2. The Newcastle chick is still txting me even though we didn't meet.

From 12-2 this is when it's closing down time, like 10pin said "it's not a close unless it's a full close" truer words have never been spoken.

Here I need to start leading girls, I don't do this enough. I can be dominate opening, not afraid to kino escalate, but actually moving them around is something I rarely do. I also need to get sexual more, have more intent like right now it's ON! When I mean ON I mean I'm ready to fuck, sometimes I can forget the reason I'm out at all. I also need to make sure I keep on approaching, between 1-2 I can sometimes get tired and mentally give up because I loose state.

State is for pussies!

Tiredness is not the problem, it is when you loose state you become a pussy and become afraid to approach. Realising this and ploughing through, starting small opening consistently when you 'loose state' is what I need to start doing.

Anyway, next stop is Prague...

So until next time...

Peace