So everything had been going smoothly.... then this evening I had my first rock of boat so to speak. Is it drastic? I don't think so, however I'll shed some light on the issue to give you greater insight.
We had spent the last three days together, we had an awesome weekend where we went and stayed in this beautiful 5 star apartment in Manchester. Now I had been trying to get frisky with her all evening but she was like 'noooo not yet' and kept rejecting my advances. We had just ate a beautiful dinner and sat down and I was watching a movie while she was in the shower. She came out in a robe and her underwear and to be honest I can't remember the exact dialogue I finished watching the movie then showered and we finished off our evening with some sexy time!. The next two days we had an awesome time together she proclaimed she was the happiest she had ever been.... roll on.. two days later.
I had been chatting to her on the phone the previous evening while not paying attention 100% because I was looking for some new hair clippers on the net. She had been complaining about a sore throat.
Then this evening we spoke on the phone, she said she was in a mood with me and was going to go to bed. It was no big deal, she usually gets in these little moods then comes out of them herself when she realises how much of a spaz she's being, I then usually get a txt apologising or saying shes loves me.
Anyway, I txt her wishing her good night and then I got a reply saying she was hormonal and had been unhappy all day. She was worried we were moving too fast...
WTF!?
I quizzed her in what way?
The issue came to her feeling like I was no longer wooing her and how the manchester thing had upset her and how she felt I didn't care she felt poorly with her sore throat.
Both I felt were pretty minor issues, I knew she was pissed about the thing in Manchester.. she had clearly made that issue be known, but it obviously had been at the back of her mind. I was a bit annoyed she was txting me this and that she hadn't been honest with me.
I txt her back handling the situation, or trying to and then got another reply saying it was pretty obvious she was annoyed about the thing in manchester. She said we'd talk about it later and she loved me.
I then got another txt from her... in her classic style... saying
"I love you and dont want to be grumpy :-( x x x x "
So she had brought herself out of her mood. However, this one I think we will discuss as there maybe an underlaying issue. It did force me to scrutinise my involvement in the relationship, I noticed I'm not very complimentry to her, which was an issue I had with the girl I was seeing in summer. Maybe it's the way how the 'game' has forced me to sort of hold back compliments and feelings which has had a knock on effect. My only previous reference point of a relationship was with the ex that lead me to the game, everything was perfect up until the time we broke up. So when I hear of couples having problems or issues it is a bit alien to me as I never experienced that. I know there is a whole other side to interacting with women that I now have to learn, which I'm trying to remember.
And although it is an issue, or maybe there is no issue at all, it is something I'd like to nip in the bud before it spirials into something bigger.
